Breakups, Divorce & Relationship Problems
When a relationship ends in mid-life, it isn’t just the relationship that changes.
- Are you feeling unanchored ?
- Does your future feel unclear?
- Are you asking deeper questions about who you are now?
“This is not just heartbreak. It is mid-life reorganisation.”
- Calm your mind
- Make sense of the changes
- Take the next step
Is This What You Are Going Through?
- The relationship ended, but the deeper question remains
- You’re not sure who you are outside of partnership
- You feel grief mixed with unexpected clarity
- You’re questioning past choices
- You’re wondering what this next chapter means
- You sense something larger is shifting
“This is not just loss. It is transition.”
Why This Feels So Disruptive in Mid Life
When a relationship ends in mid life, it shakes more than emotion.
- The future you imagined dissolves
- Your self identity becomes unstable
- Your sense of security shifts
- You begin questioning who you are now?
“You are not starting from nothing. You are starting from experience.”
What Becomes Possible
- New Found Resilience
- Rebuilding Self Trust
- Creating a New Story
- New Found Inner Strength
How We Support You
Mid life disruption is not a problem to fix.
It is a transition to navigate.
Our roles are different, but aligned in purpose.
“Mid life is not the end of who you were. It is the beginning of who you are choosing to become.”
Speak to Roman
Let’s slow things down and look honestly at where you are in your life right now.
We’ll unpack what you’re navigating, and whether working with Adam through the Pathfinder Program feels like the right next step for you.
Popular Questions
Here are a selection of commonly asked questions and answers based on client experiences.
Pathfinder is a guided self-discovery journey designed for people in periods of transition, uncertainty, or inner restlessness.
It blends hypnotherapy, reflective dialogue, symbolic journeys, and practical integration to help you understand where you are, what’s ending, and what’s trying to emerge next, without rushing or forcing change.
The Pathfinder Program is for people who sense that something is changing — or needs to — but aren’t yet clear on what comes next.
It’s especially supportive if you find yourself in any of these spaces:
- You’re in a life transition
A relationship has ended or changed.
Your role as a parent is shifting.
Your career no longer fits who you are.
Life feels different, but the next chapter isn’t clear yet.
- You feel stuck in the in-between
The old way no longer works, but the new way hasn’t arrived.
You’re functioning, but something feels off.
Motivation has dipped, clarity feels distant, and decision-making feels heavy.
- You’ve lost a sense of direction or identity
You’re asking questions like Who am I now? or What actually matters to me?
The labels and roles that once defined you don’t quite land anymore.
- You’re mentally busy or emotionally overloaded
Overthinking, looping thoughts, inner tension, or constant self-doubt are draining your energy.
You want steadiness, clarity, and space to think and feel again.
- You’re ready for depth, not surface fixes
You’re not looking for motivation hacks or forced positivity.
You want meaningful inner work that helps you understand yourself, regulate your inner world, and move forward with integrity.
Pathfinder isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about reconnecting with who you already are and learning how to move through change with trust, clarity, and self-leadership.
You begin with a relaxed Discovery Call with Roman Kauls.
This is a no-pressure conversation to explore what’s going on for you, answer questions, and see whether Pathfinder feels like the right next step.
From there, you’ll be gently guided into the most appropriate pathway.
You’ll work directly with Adam Stansbury, moving through the Inner Earth journey at a pace that suits you.
Sessions focus on grounding, insight, emotional regulation, identity, and integration, helping you translate inner clarity into real, lived change.
Each journey is personalised. There’s no rigid script and no rushing ahead.
The Pathfinder Program sits at the intersection of therapeutic depth and life guidance.
It’s informed by counselling principles, hypnotherapy, and psychological models of transition, while also supporting forward movement, self-leadership, and meaning.
If you’re unsure whether it’s right for you, the Discovery Call is the best place to explore that safely.
Ready to start?
Ready to stabilise after your breakup?
This call is simply a steady first step.
